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Welcome to the April 2005 newsletter! This month, Paul at Marais Flat Apartments sent us a great article on Paris's Gay Village. Thanks Paul! We also have something on Gay May in Knysna, South Africa, from Noreen at Bliss Self Catering Apartments - thanks, Noreen! And we have another great article from Don & Ray on the most memorable people they've met in their travels - thanks, guys! Innkeepers - write us an article about your area, and we'll include it in a future issue of this newsletter with credit and links to your website and email addresses. Contact wheretostay@purpleroofs.com for more details. Late Availability/Special Offer Accommodation Notices As always, we also have our Late Availability & Special Offer notices (161 offers in 23 countries/regions) all at http://www.purpleroofs.com/lateavailability.html, or just check your favorite destination page - these notices are also right there on the regular listings. Innkeepers - Add a Full Page Expanded Listing for Just $149 for 15 Months - Save 32%! We have our Expanded Listings on sale this month - get Search Engine submission, a free Mi Casa Su Casa Home Trade Network membership, and more at: http://www.purpleroofs.com/expandedlisting.html Seen Our Real Estate, Wedding, and Professional Sections Lately? We've been beefing up our realtor, mortgage lender, and wedding vendor listings over the last several months, and now have over 780 real estate professional listings in 46 US states and Canada, Mexico, and the Caribbean. We have over 400 Wedding Vendor listings in 38 US states, Canada, the Caribbean, Central America, and Europe. And we recently added a Gay Professionals site - FindAGayProfessional.com. Check out our real estate professional listings here: http://www.gayrealtynetwork.com That's it for this issue - see y'all next time! :) Mark & Scott, PURPLE ROOFS |
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Innkeepers and travelers, please send us your stories to share! Paris & Its Gay Village Perhaps Paris may best be described as the capital of hedonism, City of Light or better even City of Delight. Its gay scene can be characterised as colourful and heavily into promoting sexual consumption “sur place”, judging by the abundance of backrooms of recent clubs, bars, saunas and gyms. But in Paris things are best done under a cover of ‘charm’. Where else in the world do you find gay establishments on a street called “des Mauvais Garçons” (=the ‘bad boys’ street, named after its 16th century turbulent inhabitants)” or on a street that used to be called “Tire-Boudin”? (roughly translated as “Sausage pulling” because of the prostitutes who worked here in the Middle Ages, and has since been given the more dignified name “rue Marie Stuart” after a former Queen of France who is better know as the tragic Queen of Scots). Maybe, just maybe, Paris competes with London as the only other European city that offers such a large choice of gay venues. The centre of Parisian gay life is the Marais district, once a swamp until in the 13th century monks and the Knights’ Templar started settling here. It is a gorgeous old neighbourhood that's also home to the city's Jewish community. Now it has become an expensive, fashionable residential area, as seems to happen around the world whenever the gay set moves in. Clustered here are the city's hottest bars along with many gay restaurants and shops, in particular on the streets: rue Ste-Croix-de-la-Bretonnerie, rue des Archives and rue Vieille du Temple (all in the 4th district). Adjacent to the West are two other popular extensions of the gay Marais neighbourhood: Les Halles and Montorgueil. Gay life is, however, not limited to the Marais. Traditionally the harder, leather scene has been nearer to the Bastille (rue Keller) while in more recent years also many gays tend to go out in the more popular areas of the 11th district (e.g. canal St. Martin, rue St. Maur) where many places may be a mix of straight/gay. Out of the hundreds of gay sports associations, restaurants, bars, video arcades, saunas, dance and sex clubs, many are spread all over Paris. As a starting point for a tour of “Gay Paree”, the Open Café on the corner of rue St Croix Bretonnerie and rue des Archives, has almost become an institution as the axis of the Marais life. Across the street you find several very popular café terraces. Around the corner is the Raidd, the ‘in’ bar now because of its sexy shows (say, equivalent of Splash in New York) while the Cox remains a popular happy hour bar. To mention just two of the many naughty sex clubs: Le Dépôt and Impact are both located on the border between the Marais and Montorgueil areas. For restaurants you needn’t limit yourself to the gay ones since many simple café bistros or sophisticated brasseries abound, especially if you wander away from the major streets. One thing that most gay visitors immediately notice about the Paris scene, is that it's largely dominated by a crowd of trendy young, buffed bunnies, typically many with shaven heads (crân rasé). Most of our foreign visitors are surprised by this concentration of gays in the centre of town. This Marais Gay Village has developed really during the last twenty years. Gay life in the 1960s and ‘70s used to be mainly around rue St Anne in the 1st district and on the Left Bank. These discreet, hidden clubs, where one had to ring at the door to enter, have virtually all been closed now. Then in the 1980s a bit more flamboyant, small clubs started around Les Halles (rue de la Verrerie, rue des Lombard). Today the entire heart of the Marais area has been taken over by gay businesses that flaunt rainbow flags and have transparent windows on the street side. Trendy activity has even spread lately beyond the historic Marais to the nearby Montorgueil pedestrian area. Those who can afford to live in these fashionable areas, are often characterised as the “bo-bo's" (bourgeois-bohemian). Wandering through Paris and Le Marais Experienced visitors to Paris tell you that the best way to enjoy its charms is by strolling through parts of the city. On your promenade, stop regularly to sip on a real petit café and a croissant - this most typical experience of Parisian life. Although international food and coffee chains have opened up around Paris (including more McDonalds and Starbucks), typical traditional cafés and bistros or brasseries are still found on virtually every street. Many trendy shops are now to be found in the many covered passageways that have been restored to their early 19th century glory. Readers of the bestseller The Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown may be tempted to search for the various historic sites mentioned in the novel, starting with the pyramid courtyard of the Louvre. Strolling about is the best way to discover the secrets of the French capital arrondissement by arrondissement (=districts) and enjoy it like a local, by looking at:
Behind many a wooden gateway of the 17th and 18th century houses, you will be surprised by a charming courtyard, where you can still make out where the horse-drawn carriages used to be parked but now a pretty green garden has been planted for the co-owners. These important elements of the medieval city life could once be found scattered throughout the districts around the Louvre, before changes to the city forced most to disappear. Today you can still find beautiful examples mainly in the Faubourg Saint-Honoré (8th district) and Le Marais (4th district). “Le Marais” developed in the 17th century when leading aristocrats built their Palaces or Hôtels Particuliers. Before that Le Marais was a vast field with flat ground and rectilinear streets, affording the space and wherewithal to build these magnificent private homes. Like contemporary gays, ancient aristos knew a good real estate deal when they saw one. Rich farming land in la Douce France formed the basis of most noblemen’s fortunes and provided the sites for the stately châteaux that were their permanent homes. But when country life proved boring, and when the King did not require them to pay court at the Palace at Versailles, those who could afford it would build their own “small” city palaces. Though many of these Town Houses have now been divided into dozens of condos, their splendid facades are still a pleasure to view while meandering through the narrow streets. Some of the best examples of these “Hôtel Particuliers” are those preserved by the state for use as museums, such as the Picasso Museum in Hôtel Aubert de Fontenay (Salé), the Historical Library housed in Hôtel Lamoignon; the Parisian history museum in Hôtel Carnavalet; or the Archives Museum contained in the combined former mansions of Soubise and Guénégaud. Some stunning “Hôtels” in Le Marais have remained privately owned properties such as Hôtel Libéral Bruand and Hôtel des Ambassadeurs de Hollande. Right or Left Bank? Our main focus has been on the Right Bank of Paris. By crossing the river Seine which bisects the city, you can visit the famous Left Bank, or Rive Gauche, and can live the imaginary life of a writer like Sartre in 1950s Paris- observing diners at Les Deux Magots and Cafe Flore or sitting on a bench in the Luxembourg Gardens or the park behind St. Julien le Pauvre, the oldest church of Paris where gospel or classical music concerts are often held. This is also the Paris of the students’ Quartier Latin, boulevard St. Michel, the very bourgeois 7th district and the rather boring residential 15th district, home of the iconic Eiffel Tower. The Left Bank is now regarded as a “has-been” area whose glory days are in the past. Today most agree that the more dynamic side of Paris is to be found on the Right Bank, Rive Droite, as demonstrated by the opening up of numerous galleries, fashion boutiques and design shops, as well as by the renovation and construction works constantly in progress there. For example, an ambitious project has just been approved to redesign and reconstruct the Forum des Halles to enable it to play better its multiple roles in the very city centre, combining a huge subway hub with several cultural centres and the largest shopping mall of Paris. This Rive Droite further includes the medieval Paris, with the world famous art museum located in the former Royal Palace of the Louvre, the elegant shops to be found along the Champs-Elysées (in particular on nearby avenue Montaigne), the Arc de Triomphe and of course the beautiful historical Marais area. A Dynamic City of Love: the N° 1 Tourist Destination Paris combines culture, romance, history, dynamic life and an increasingly outward, tolerant looking younger generation. This "do-as-you-please” mentality has been a gradual change during the last decade. The election of the openly gay mayor, Bertrand Delanoe, has been one of the symptoms of this shift in mind-set. Diversity is Paris’s main strength and can be witnessed by the recent wave of avant-garde galleries and boutiques. It is no longer just the Impressionists’ paintings in the Musée Quai d’Orsay or the Mona Lisa in the Louvre Museum one comes to see. It is very much being part of the alternative quintessential European way of life. Paris is western and capitalist for sure, but a different emphasis on quality of life is noticeable. In this way, Paris has probably the greatest number of good and affordable bistros and restaurants of any city. With its image as the most beautiful city in the world, Paris symbolizes Old World values in the context of a very modern city. Also its reachability by high-speed trains has helped the popularity of Paris. Less than three hours to the heart of London, one and a half hour to Brussels and only four to Amsterdam! High-speed trains link Paris with Marseille and many other sunny southern French cities. Parisians can be very pleasant and charming if treated with a reasonable level of courtesy à la française. It helps if you adopt the basics of the French “savoir vivre”. Always start, whether it is a Parisian taxi driver, sales person, waiter, with a greeting of “bonjour” or “bonsoir” before asking a question. If you respect this basic etiquette, Parisians become smiling and helpful and many will be happy to take the time to point you in the right direction. Try a word or two of French before speaking to anyone in English. It works wonders. How would people in the US or UK respond to a stranger accosting them in a foreign tongue? Nowadays it is easy to challenge the stereotype of Parisians as snobbish and xenophobic. Most tourists I meet are struck by how friendly the French have become, and how well they now speak English, especially the younger ones. Today’s taxi drivers even take city sponsored courses in how to treat tourists correctly! In addition politicians of all persuasions contribute to the improvement of life in the French capital. Under the socialist-ecologist administration led by the gay mayor, the city has drastically reduced car traffic and parking spaces, making touring by foot a much less hazardous experience. This mayor became famous for starting the highly successful “Paris Plage”, for one month during height of the summer the auto route along the Seine is closed for traffic and turned into an artificial beach including sans, showers and palm trees. Bicycles are the upcoming means of transportation. Recently the conservative national government is cracking down on crime and initiating policies with emphasis on security and anti-prostitution regulations. Even the previously omnipresent dog droppings are disappearing since the police are now fining dog owners who fail to clean up after their pets. In 2004, in number terms, the entire population of the UK visited the French capital. Even in the midst of the Iraq War controversy, the number of U.S. travellers continued to increase, as do those of Chinese and Japanese tourists. If you are looking for either heavy clubbing, musicals, or financial summits, London is the place for you in Europe. If you want to be overwhelmed by ancient historical beauty and don’t care for gay nightlife, Rome may be the place to be. But Paris remains by far the most visited city in the world! In French, C’est la vie rimes with C’est Paris. Practical tips Some favourite viewpoints:
Museums in and around Le Marais Paris has 164 museums (almost as many as London and New York combined!), but walking from the Marais, I make the following selection: Louvre This former royal palace is the largest museum in Europe, open 9:30am - 6:00pm; closed Tuesdays. The foundations of the old Louvre, visible in basement, date back to the Middle Ages. Spectacular newly opened Egyptian galleries. Try to avoid the main entrance but rather take the one on the rue de Rivoli, which is always less busy. Carnavalet history of Paris 23 rue de Sévigné 75003 Metro Saint-Paul Picasso in Hôtel Salé 5 rue de Thorigny 75003 Métro Chemin Vert; open 9:30am-5:30pm, closed Tuesday Jewish Art and history in Hôtel de Saint-Aignan 71 rue du Temple 75003 Métro Rambuteau, especially the building itself is a fabulous 17th century palace. Arts et Métiers 60 rue de Réaumur 75003 Metro Arts et Métiers Conciergerie 1 quai de l’Horloge, 75001 Metro Cité Marie Antoinette & Louis XVI where imprisoned here during the 1789 revolution in this only intact medieval castle of Paris Archives in Hotel de Soubise - 60 rue des Francs Bourgeois, 75004 (closed Tuesday). Centre Pompidou (or Beaubourg as French call it) , 75003 Metro Rambuteau Cognacq-Jay, 8 rue Elzevir, 75003 Victor Hugo’s house, the author of Les Misérables, lived on the place des Vosges, a most beautiful 16th century square. Try to find a secret passage that links to the fabulous Hotel Sully gardens. Cluny abbey, Metro Cluny Orsay, open 10-6, Tuesday-Saturday, Métro Solferino. In this 19th century former railway station, you will find 19th century masterpieces from Camille Claudel sculptures to Van Gogh paintings. Theatre/ festivals: Like at London’s Leicester Square or Times Square in NYC, you can buy today's theatre tickets at half price if you go to the Kiosque at Place de la Madeleine, Métro Madeleine, after noon. At any time during the year, cultural events take place such as quartier d'été festival (in Tuileries and Palais Royal gardens for example), open air cinemas in August, the gay and lesbian film festival at Les Halles. Opera/concerts: Paris also has three operas houses: the classical Garnier (now mainly ballet), modern Bastille (mainly opera) and Le Châtelet (mix). One can obtain book on line on www.opera-de-paris.fr, by mail or at Opera itself by getting in line at 10 am for last minute availabilities (inexpensive). Many classical concerts are organised in Paris' beautiful churches such as Notre Dame or Saint Eustache. There is always a free concert on Saturday night in St Merri Church, next to the Pompidou. It's a great experience to do at least once. TransportDriving and parking in Paris is a challenge if you are not from a Mediterranean city. That's why a majority of the Parisians use the efficient and cheap public transportation. Also one can rent bikes.Taxis: Paris Cabs are reasonably cheap. However, be it will be virtually impossible to flag a taxi down on the street on a Friday or Saturday night, in particular until 3 AM, around the time of the last subways. Subway: Paris has the biggest and probably the best Métro system in the world with over 500 stations! The Métro is cheap, convenient and runs until 00.45 hrs. The best deal is to buy a carnet of 10 tickets. Buses are an excellent service and one of the best ways to see Paris. You can use Métro tickets to take them: for same price as metro you get to sight see Paris! Ask for a combined bus-museum pass. Shopping: Cinema: The best of all is the UGC Cite Ciné in Les Halles, near the church of St Eustache: more than 20 screens with the terrific sound systems and wide screens. Most films are shown in their original language version ("vo") but with French subtitles. The MK2 cinema at la Bibliothèque Mitterand has a charming feature of one seat for 2 people to share while MK2 at Beaubourg-Pompidou often shows gay movies. Cash & Tipping You do not have to tip for services or in restaurants. If your waiter is nice and helpful it is customary though to leave a little extra but it is not compulsory. France is the number one country in the world for the number of cash-points per capita! ATM's are everywhere (look for bank signs such as SG, BNP) and it's the most flexible and reliable way to obtain cash in Euros. There is no need to change money before you leave home. Almost every shop accepts payment by Visa or Amex Safety-wise Paris is unlike many other major cities in the world. Despite an increase in crime levels of some suburbs, crime in the historical centre of Paris is very low. Due to strong gun and weapons control laws, crime in the city is virtually non-violent. Of course, like everywhere, you should always be careful and sensible, especially in the metro (possible pickpockets). Walking at night or day in this neighbourhood is probably the most peaceful thing to do. Smoking Although a third of adult Frenchmen still smoke, the non-smoking campaign is catching on in France like wildfire. Virtually every restaurant has a non-smoking area but often the separation is only hypothetical. Info. Only few cafés, hotels or restaurants have declared themselves to be smoke-free on a voluntary basis. See: www.droit-air-pur.com/nosmokingrestaurants.htm Guides The best papers to find out what's on and where to go are definitely Pariscope, found at any bookshop with its English section Time Out Paris. Try Zurban, the new weekly city magazine (in French). To go out in the gay scene, pick up the free papers E-male or Illico where you'll find a lot of addresses and info on theme-parties. Many businesses in Marais will have these free publications. See also: www.citegay.frParis Tourist Office: new headquarters between the Louvre and the Opera Garnier. Tourist Info: 9-20h (or low season: 11-18h) 25, rue de Pyramides 1st district, 01 49 52 53 00, summer kiosk next to Pompidou Centre. For more info you can contact: Paul Out on Vacation: Most Memorable People We Have Met
Raymond Bilbool, the absolutely fabulous and terrific owner of the Secret Garden Bed and Breakfast in West Hollywood is one of our very favorites. His personality shines beautifully and when he enters a room, the entire room lights up. He has given so much of himself to so many. We really do feel honored to count him as a very dear friend. He is truly a professional in everything that he does. Everyone who stays at his Bed and Breakfast adores him. And while staying at the Secret Garden, we met the New York City movie producer, Rick McKay whose new film, BROADWAY: The Golden Age just came out last year. We now see him in different cities that we all find ourselves in. Several years ago we met Ginny who was staying at a Ramada Inn in Georgia with her sister. They were driving North as we were staying at the same Ramada Inn traveling South. Like two ships passing in the night and as chance would have it we chatted at the pool. She had with her, her dear friend and sidekick, Willy Cool who is a 4 foot fiberglass penguin who travels with her all the time. Both of these women's husbands are long gone but they are both Fun and knew that we were. Since that one night of having fun we have stayed in touch and now see each other regularly when we go back to Florida and we are going to help her open up her cottage in New Hampshire this summer. Ginny lives life to the fullest as we all should. The Countess Alexis in West Hollywood is an inspiration for believing in yourself and marching to your own drummer. She is "Old Hollywood" in every since of the word. But she can be a mean bitch and turn on a dime which she has done at several dinner parties that we have attended. But, she is her own person. In Palm Springs, California our "four musketeers" Burt, Jim, Stefan and Tyke are great gentlemen. They always are having fun and enjoying life to the fullest. They are great entertainers, wonderful party hosts and truly good friends. The most exceptional owner of a restaurant has to be Mel Haber, the straight owner of Melvyn's Restaurant at the Ingleside Inn in Palm Springs. His personality is larger than life. He is fun, funny, witty and an outstanding host for his restaurant. People WANT to come back again and again, and they do! In New York our dear friend, Tom Monsell, the author and playwrite/critic who knows more about the "theatre" than anyone we know. His travels have taken him all over the world. We first met Tom when we were in San Francisco. Actually we were taking the "ferry" to Alcatraz Island to take a tour of the prison and he was seated next to us. Since then he has been a guest in our home several times and we have visited him several times. We have taken several trips together. Also in New York is the flamboyant, Jean Claude Baker, the owner of the famous restaurant, Chez Josephine which is in honor of his adopted mother, the late singer Josephine Baker. His restaurant is a MUST DO when going to New York City. In Ft. Lauderdale, Florida we know the uniquely multi-talented performer, Auntie Mame. We have been a guest in his home. He is one of those very rare entertainers who gives EVERYTHING for their performances. He is extremely well loved in Ft. Lauderdale. Another very interesting person we met in Ft. Lauderdale was Houston, a marvelous entertainer who sadly was killed in an automobile accident a little over a year ago. What do all of these people have in common? They are all interesting, fun, wonderful, exciting and live life to the fullest. They are very compassionate and caring individuals. And why not? After all that is what life is all about! So, don't just sit home and feel sorry for yourself. Get out and travel, meet people, have fun! This is not a dress rehearsal for something yet to come. This is the REAL thing. For more infomation on traveling, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers.
On their 25th Anniversary, Elizabeth Taylor wrote, "Congratulations to the two of you on your 25th Anniversary! You have surely reached an important milestone in your lives together, and I send you my best wishes as you celebrate tonight". Candice Gingrich wrote, "Your enduring relationship is another shining example of what "family values" is and should be about... trust, security, love commitment. Continued success in your togetherness". Don and Ray write articles for several gay and lesbian newspapers and magazines. You can email us at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Gay Knysna in May - Pink Loerie Mardi Gras, May 26-May 29th 2005 OVERVIEW OF THE CARNIVAL: The Pink Loerie is a 4 - day gay carnival in Knysna that includes, comedy, dance, music and cabaret, a visual arts program consisting of exhibitions, crafts and cinema, a special events program charity functions, competitions, exclusive Boyz and Girlz events with a Mardi Gras-style Street Parade. We strive through these events of celebration to:
PROGRAMME OF MAIN EVENTS: Thur 26th May
Fri 27th May
Sat 28th May
Sun 29th May
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUERIES, PLEASE CONTACT: Alan Sass, Mobile: 082 3370666, Email: al@alsknysna.co.za, Email: info@pinkloerie.com, Website: www.pinkloerie.com
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